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A LESSON OF SELF-DENIALL : OR , The true way to desirable BEAUTY .

By JOHN COLLINGS , M. A.

Mat. 10. 37. He that loveth father or mother more than me , is not worthy of me ; and he that loveth son or daughter more than me , is not worthy of me . Ver. 38. And he that taketh not up his crosse , and followeth after me , is not worthy of me .

Printed for Rich: Tomlins . 1649.

TO THE Right Honourable , The Lady Frances Cecill , the only Daughter of the Right Honourable the Lady Elizabeth , Countesse Dowager of EXETER . Increase of true Honour , and Peace , and Happinesse . Madam ,

WHen I considered the plenty of Gospell-sheaves , which the Gracious Lord of the Harvest hath in our days caused his reapers to bind up , I could not but question whemy gleane were worth your Ladiships stooping to take up . God hath seemed to empty his treasuries upon our heads , that there is scarce a gospell-duty but some or other more eminent labourers in the Lords harvest have undertaken to discover and urge , which makes me sometimes tremble to think at what disadvantage they must perish , that are yet dead or unfruitfull . But if there be any lesson that hath been lesser urged , or practised than other , it is this of selfe Deniall . I rejoyce to see the flowings of the spirit of grace in those eminent Servants of the Lord , that have both hunted for venison , and caught it , to make savory meat for the Saints , discovering those secrets of the Lords strength , and unsearchable riches of love , beyond the pennes or tongues of those that have gone before them . But methinkes , I have sometimes feared lest while those Eminent ones have driven according to the peace of their own soules , and made it their work almost onely to dresse out the strong meat , they should have driven beyond the pace of the Lambs , and onely go away with part of the flock who are able to receive and have eares to heare , such sublime gospell mysteries . I have sometimes wished a Shepard or Hooker , or two more to stay behind , and to drive the remnant of the flock , which in heaven will overtake the other , though there be many things to be spoken which ( without over driving them ) they are not yet able to beare . I ( being one borne out of due time ) am onely fit for such a work , the opening the Rudiments of Christianity , and it shall be my crowne if by teaching the A B C of the wayes of grace , I may be made instrumentall but to fit Saints for their highschooles . I have presumed here to present your Honour with the first Lesson of Grace . He that will be my disciple ( saith Christ ) let him deny himselfe , and take up the crosse and follow me ; first deny himself , then follow me . Not but that I hope your Ladiship can readily endorse this sermon , with that speech of the young man , All these have I kept from my youth . Though I need not mind your Honour , that it is a lif 's not a dayes practice . ( Madam ) there can be no Mistresse like Experience , which easily convinceth me , that your Ladiship ( who have had a constant sight of sublunary vanities , an enjoyment of creature-contentments ) is farre more able to read him ( who now writes ) a lecture of the Vanity of every thing under the Sun , than he is to read it your Ladiship , who hath been blest in the want of those advantages , and onely ( from a guesse at the body by the foot ) can subscribe Solomons account of them : surely ( Madam ) there is nothing under the Sun , but in cleaving to it , and neglecting Christ , a rationall creature must dishonour himselfe as well as his Saviour , and as well call in question his own judgement , and out-law his owne reason , as disobey his God . Christ , ( Madam ! ) Ah! Christ , Christ alone is the excelling one ; that is Altogether desires ; It is the Rose of Sharon only that wants prickles . His name is the onely box of Ointment , which one fly or other will not make to stinke . And now I mention his name , I remember what the spouse saith , Thy name is an ointment powerd forth , therefore doe the Virgines love thee . Of those Virgines , I trust your Ladiship is , those that love Christ for the ointment of his name powred forth ; ( so I trust hath the Ointment of grace powred upon that head from which you drew your naturall breath , ran downe to the skirts of all her Relations . ) ( Madam ) This world is not so well bred , but in Christs wayes if your Ladiship desire to walk , you must expect to be a sharer in the scoffs of those that put out the finger at those that run not with them to the same excesse of Riot . I need not mind your Ladiship of the Grace of our Lord Iesus Christ , who patiently endured the crosse and despised the shame for your sake . ( Madam ) the wayes of Christ , the paths of holinesse , are onely uncomely to those before whose eyes the Devill hath cast a mist , and the God of this world hath blinded their eyes , lest the glorious light of of the gospell should shine upon them . If the King desires our beauty , no matter , whether our rate be high or low amongst the children of Vanity , whose God is their Belly , and whose glory is their shame . May your Ladiship strive after perfection , and yet daunce before the Ark , though Michal mocks out at the window ▪ The Moone keeps its course though the dogs bark . This Sermon ( Madam ) was formerly dedicated to your Ladiships eares , I never thought then , that the noise of it should have gone beyond the chappell it was preacht in , nor indeed had it , had not your Ladiships noble Mother commanded the transcription of a coppy , which desire was also seconded by other Noble friends , whose commands I was as unwilling to disobey , as unable to performe , through my multitude of other occasions , which is the only reason of my publication of it , that I might be thrifty of my time for my other studies , and by troubling the world worke my own ease . Having resolved upon this course , I was desirous it should appeare as covertly as might be , and have therefore added it to some other Sermons , preacht long before then , sent to the presse to gratify the desire of the Printer . ( Madam ) your Ladiship I trust will easily excuse me for the want of paines in it ; If I should spend time to tickle some few ears , it would be unthriftily done , and possibly I might by it lose the advantage of speaking to many anothers heart ; I had rather so preach and write that those that heare or read my sermons , should read and heare with a trembling heart , than with a tickled fancy . ( Madam ) Such as it is ) I crave leave to present it to your Ladiship , Beseeching the God of grace so to empower every line , that it may be a drop of mercy to your Honours , and every Readers soule , That your Ladiship may grow up like the tree planted by the rivers of water , and bring forth fruit in your season , That in the renewing of every week , there may appeare in your Ladiships heart & conversation , an answer of those old prayers newly returned to your Ladiships Noble Parent . That the Lord may have glory , your soule peace , and hee the dayly answer of his prayers , who truely is Madam ,

Your Honours most humbly obliged servant in the Lord Jesus , John Collings . Chaplyfield house , Aug: 21. 1649.
A LESSON OF Self-Denyall . Psal. 45. 10 , 11. Hearken O daughter , and consider , and encline thine eare : Forget also thy own people , and thy Fathers house , so shall the King desire thy beauty , —

IT is agreed ( almost amongst all Expositors ) that this Psalme is a Marriage-Song , and principally relating to the spirituall marriage between Jesus Christ , and the beleeving soule , or between Christ and his Church : But there is a little question amongst them , whether the spirituall sense of it be couched under a type , or an Allegory ; Some thinke that the Holy Ghost here treates of that spirituall marriage , under the type of Solomons marriage to Pharaohs daughter , of which wee read , 1 King . 3. 11. Of this opinion ( saith D. Rivet ) are D. Rivet Pref. in hunc Psalmum . the Hebrew Interpreters , and most others , as Calvin , Bucer , Junius , Jansenius . &c. yet these grant that there are some things in the Psalme not capable of that literall sense . Others are against this , partly because ( as they say ) that marriage of Solomons was wicked , and against Gods Law , Deut. 7. and partly because it is probable that Solomon having before that time ( as 1 King . 3. 3. ) the feare of the Lord in his heart , it is not probable he would have contracted that marriage , had not she first contracted to have forsaken her fathers house ( which the Hebrewes also say was one of the marriage-Articles . ) But it is probable that that marriage gave occasion to the writing of this Psalme ; and for the reason against it , Rivet answers by a Rule of S. Hieroms , Homines mali in re non bona , sanctissimarum rerum imo ipsius Dei ●ypi esse possunt . That In Scripture , evill men , and that in wicked actions , are oft-times types of holy actions , and that of Gods owne too oft times ; Ishmael was a type of the old Testament ( according to the Apostle ) an many other instances might bee given . Whether it be a Type or an Allegory is not much materiall , nor worth the disputing : Rivet thinks neither sense improbable , but conceives it might be both ; nor do I see any thing of value against it . In the Psalme observe :

1. The Preface , verse 1. Wherein he Psalmist declares the readinesse of his heart , and instinct of the spirit , putting him upon the Composure of it .

2. The narrative part of the Psalm , from the 2 verse to the last .

3. The Conclusion of it , verse ult.

In the narrative part is something , 1. Relating to the Bridegroom . 2. Relating to the Bride .

The Bridegroome is commended from his Beauty , v. 2. Thou art fairer than the children of men . 2. From his Eloquence , v. 2. Grace is powred into thy lips . 3. From the blessing of God upon him ; God hath blessed thee for ever . 4. From his Glory and Majesty , v. 3. 5. From his successe , v. 4. 6. From his Temper and Disposition , verse 4. 7. From his Valour , verse 4 , 5 , 6. 8. From the nature of his Kingdome , v. 6. 9. From his love to Justice , v. 7. 10. From the perfume of his Garments , v. 8. 11. From his choice in his Queene and his Attendants , v. 9. So farre it relates to the Bridegroome .

The other part relates to the Bride ; and in it is a Lesson of Instruction and Exhortation read to her , prest from severall Motives .

The Exhortation is in the two verses in which my Text lyes ; And it is foure-fold , prest from severall Arguments . In the Text then you may consider , 1. An Exhortation , enforced upon the former Description . 2. Severall Motives to presse this Exhortation .

1. In the first consider , 1. The person exhorted ; set out by the name of Daughter , ( O Daughter . ) 2. The Exhortation ; which is five-fold : 1. Hearken . 2. Consider . 3. Incline thin eare . 4. Forget thy people and thy fa , ther s house . 5. Worship him . 3. The Motives inforcing it , which are , 1. The former description of him ; now thou art married to such an husband , hearken , &c. 2. The Relation of Daughter ; Children should harken to their Parents . 3. Shee should bee beautifull . 4. Her beauty should be desireable . 5. The King should desire it ; yea , greatly desire her beauty .

Let me a little open the words , and then proceed .

[ O Daughter , ] Quae consentit viro in matrimonium est viro in loco filiae , saith Rivet : The woman that consents to her Husband in marriage , is to him in stead of a Daughter : So saith the Parable , 2 Sam , 12. 3. The Ewe-lambe , which signified the wife , laid in the poore mans bosome , and was unto him as a daughter , Jer. 3. 4. Wilt thou not from hence forth crie unto me , Thou art my Father , the guide of my youth , the guide of her youth , that is , an Husband , and yet her Father . God can marry his Daughter , and yet the marriage not be incestuous ; Yea , hee first marryes the soule , and then makes it his Daughter , according to that 2 Cor. 6. 18. Wherefore come out from amongst them , and be yee separate , saith the Lord , and I will be a Father unto ●ou , and you shal be to me Sonnes and Daughters , saith the Lord ; Daughters by Adoption , Gal. 4. 6. Nor in vaine called a Daughter : It is a courteous compellation , as both Rivet and Mollerus note , by which the Lord will let his Saints know , that he will extend towards them the care of a father , as well as the love of an Husband , he will love them like an husband , and protect them like a father . Hearke Christians ! Saints are Sons and Daughters , as wel as Spouses to Christ . If he be a father where is his honour ? If an husband where his love ? But to proceed .

Hearken O Daughter ] Audi filia , ] What should shee heare ? Shee should heare her husband . There was a voice from heaven , Matth. 17. 5. This is my well-beloved Son heare him . Christs Sheep are eare-marked , John 10. 11. The good sheep are thus markt , They hear his voice . Faith comes by hearing , yea and it growes up by hearing too ; they are over-growne Saints that are growne past Ordinances , I am afraid they are growne out of Christs knowledge ; it is the deafe adder stops her eare . Davids eare was opened , Psal. 40. They that are too proud to heare Christs Voice on Earth , I am afraid will be thought too vile ever to see his face in heaven . Hearken therefore ( O Daughter ) Gods way to the Heart lies through the Eare , that 's his ordinary way ; if he at any time comes another way , I am afraid it is not when wee have wilfully blockt that up , but when himselfe hath stopt it .

Hearken O Daughter , and Consider , or see ] & vide : First heare , then see . There is a seeing of Faith . Faith is the daughter of hearing ; the Eare must open before the soule . Doe not onely heare but also see . Hearing is not enough . He that beleeveth not , is damned already . Seeing may bee of experience . As wee have heard , so have we seene in the City of our God . The soule that heares well shall see . Iohn 1. 50. Because I said unto thee , I saw thee under the Fig-tree , beleevest thou ? thou shalt see greater things than these . Faith must goe before Sight , but Sight shall succeed faith : yet Faith is a Sight , though not of experience .

And incline thine eare . ] Expositors make this Phrase to containe three things . 1. A Repetition of the first Branch , Hearken . It is a difficult duty , the word is doubled , that it may bee inforced ; the Psalmist speaks twice , considering our deafnesse , yet he speaks louder in this than in the other phrase . Secondly , therefore To incline the eare , is more than to heare , it doth argue a notable stirring of Attention . Hee that inclines his eare , affert al●quem animi motum & propensionem , quickens up his minde , and brings with him to the duty a readinesse of Spirit , and an intentnesse of minde . 3. Inclining the Eare say some is Nota demissionis , a Note of that subjection and obedience which should bee found in the Spouse of the Lord Jesus Christ toward him . It followeth in the Text ,

And forget thine owne people , and thy Fathers house . ] Here are two things to be enquired into . 1. What is meant by her owne People , and her Fathers House . 2. What is meant by forgetting of them . For the first , we must be guided by the Knowledge of the Spouse , to whom these words are spoken ; if you look upon , 1. The Church of the Jewes as the Spouse meant here to be married to Christ , without question it is meant of the Jewish Worship . the Ceremoniall Law and Worship , and their Traditions , they were to bee forgotten , and the Gospell-worship to be embraced ; the worship of Christs Institution , consonant to that of Christ to the Woman of Samarta , John 4. 21 , 22 , 23. 2. If you understond by the Spouse , the Church of the Gentiles , then the Fathers house is all the Gentile worship and Paganish Idolatry , which must all be left upon their turning to Christ . 3. If you understand by the Spouse the particular beleeving soule , the Fathers house , is old Adams house , all sinnne and wickednesse , all traditionall worshipping . Renounce the Per patris domum intelligo , quicquid corruptionis ex utero afferimus , aut quaecunque ex prava institutione nobis adhaerent quasi ad nos haereditario jure aut educatione transfusa . Rivet ad loc . World ( saith Deodate ) and cleave to Christ : It is a Lesson of Selfe-Denyall , consonant to that of Christ , Matth. 10. 37. By Fathers house , saith Doctor Rivet , wee may understand whatever corruption wee either brought out of the wombe with us , or have contracted by ill education or custome , so that they cleave to us as our inheritance . And by People , saith he , I understand [ ea quae ex mala consuetudine , & conversatione cum impiis acquisita , nos a Deo abducunt , quae omnia nobis sunt deponenda ] all those Corruptions , and whatever they be , which we have contracted by ill acquaintance , and conversing amongst the wicked , which estrange us from God , these must all bee laid downe , Luke 9. 23. Luke 14. 26. I shall anon in the opening of the Doctrine , open this tearm more fully . I now proceed .

So shall the King desire thy Beauty . ] Some read it , Quia concupivit , because the King hath desired thy beauty , making it a motive to induce her to forget her fathers house . So August . Cyprian , &c. Others read it , according to our Translation , [ The King ] The King of Glory , the King of Peace , Christ that King . I have set my King upon my holy Hill of Zion : Hee is the King , [ Greatly desire ] Out of his love to thee , his great love to thee , he shall desire it ; not onely love thee , but desire thee ; yea not onely desire thee , but greatly desire thee . He speaks after the manner of men , whose desire is to the women they love , Gen. 4. 7. Vnto thee shall be his desire . And so , Deut. 21. 11. If thou seest amongst the Captives a beautifull woman , and thou hast a desire to her to make her thy wife . Christs Love is such to the soule , that he hath a desire to her , yea not a desire barely , but a passionate desire , he shall greatly desire , he shall be in love with the soule . [ He shall greatly desire thy Beauty . ] What Beauty ? Pulchritudo est in mente credentium , ( saith Musculus ) it is meant not of a face Beauty , but an heart Beauty . Decor Ecclesiae ( saith Mollerus ) est in fide , obedientia , & dilectione . In the graces of the soule , it is a Beauty that the Lord Christ puts upon the soule , it is not a Beauty of nature , but of grace that is the Saints Beauty : Sanctitas Ecclesiae est pulchritudo Ecclesia ( saith Piscator ) the holinesse of the Church is the Churches beauty , and so the holines of the soul is the souls beauty . This is the fairenes , this the Beauty that is meant in those places of Solomons Song , Cant. 1. 10 , 11. Cant. 4. 1. Cant. 6. 1. Cant. 7. 1. This is the Beauty that the Lord Jesus Christ , the great King shall so desire in the soule , this is the comelinesse that shall make any poore soule desireable in the eyes of the Lord Jesus Christ ; This is the Beauty which will make the King of Glory rest and content himselfe in his Love to the soule that hath it , and make him bee delighted with the acquaintance of the soule , and in conversing , and having Communion with the soule . This is it that which ( where it is found ) will so ravish Christs heart , that he will never part from the soule ( as Mollerus expounds that phrase [ greatly desire . ] Thus ( as shortly as I could dispatch it ) you have the sense of the Text. Now in it there lyes these truths .

1. That the gracious soule , by marriage to Jesus Christ , becomes his Daughter as well as his Spouse . Hee will not onely love her as a Wife , but care for her as a Daughter , 2 Cor. 6. 16.

2 , That it is a great piece of the Daughters worke to hearken to Christ in his Word . It is no height of Saintship , to be beyond Ordinances , if wee be out of Heaven : It is a note of a Reprobate , being once enlightned , to fall back ; but it is a new degree of Saintship ; they are deafe Adders , that have lived thus long no Saints ; Children of the Devill , not of God ; his Daughters must hearken . [ Hearken O Daughter . ]

3. Christs Daughter must and shall see as well as heare . Hearing is not enough ; the soule must be open to receive Christ as well as the eare to heare his voice , and if they will heare , they shall see . [ Hearken O Daughter , and see . ]

4. Christs Daughters must incline their eare as well as heare and see . Obedience must bee joyn'd to Faith and Worship . Inward affection and intention of minde must bee joyned with outward hearing .

5. Which is the Doctrine I will Insist upon .

Doct. That soule that would have the Lord Jesus Christ desire its beauty , must forget its owne people , and its Fathers House . And whosoever doth that shall bee beautifull .

And the Lord Jesus shall desire its Beauty . In the handling of this Doctrine I shall doe these 5 things .

1. I shall shew you what it is for a soule to forget its owne people , and its Fathers house .

2. I shall shew you how , and in what sense the soule that doth it shall be beautifull .

3. I shall shew what is meant by the Lord Christs desiring such a soules beauty .

4. I shall give you some reasons , why it is requisite that the soule that would endeare it selfe to Christ , and make it selfe desireable , should forget its Fathers house .

5. Lastly , I shall apply the whole Doctrine suitably .

First , what is meant by the soules owne people , and Fathers house ; and secondly , by forgetting of them . What was meant in generall I shewed before . Our Fathers house is old Adams house , the world and all therein . I shall now shew you in some particulars , First , What of our Eathers must bee forgot . Secondly , how and in what sense we must forget it . The first I shall dispatch in these few following particulars , as briefely as I can .

The soule must forget the manners of its Fathers house . Our Fathers house ( ever since God and hee parted houses in Paradise ) is an house of ill manners , an house of sinne and wickednesse . Now every soule that would make it selfe beautions or desireable in the sight of Christs eyes , must shake hands with sin . Is . 55. 7. Let the wicked man forsake his way , and the unrighteous man his thoughts , and let him returne to the Lord , and he will have mercy upon him , and unto our God , and he will abundantly pardon him ; ay then the King shall desire his beauty , but first let him forget the manners of his Fathers house . All sinne must bee forgotten : But I take it especially foure sorts of sinnes are hinted to us in this Phrase , and may more properly be called the sinnes of our Fathers house .

1. Originall sinne . If we have any thing of Grace or Goodnesse , wee never learn'd that at home . It is the gift of God through the tutoring of the Spirit . But for Sinne , wee need not goe abroad to learne that , it was bred in the bone , that 's one reason why it will never out of the flesh , Ez. 16. Tby Father was an Amorite , and thy Mother an Hittite . We are chilnren of wrath by nature , Ephes. 2. 3. Psal. 51. 4. In sinne did my mother conceive me ; Now this must be forgotten ; this is a piece of our Fathers house . Men and Women you know are usually borne in their Fathers House ; We are all borne in the house of bondage , which must be forgotten , if ever the soule be desireable to Jesus Christ . It is a usuall saying of Divines , that he that was never truely humbled for Originall sinne , was never truely humbled for any sinne .

2. The sinnes of our Education . The Fathers house is the house where the Childe is brought up : All sinne is not bred in us ; that which is bred in us may bee improved . Originall sinne is sinne in the seed ; Actuall sinne is sinne in the Blade and Fruit. The World is a dusty house , you can set a Creature in never a corner of it , but it will contract some dust . Joseph by being in the King of Egypts house , learn'd to sweare by his Masters life . According to different breedings , are men addicted to different Vanities , whether pleasure , or honour , &c. Now when the soul comes unto Christ he must come off these , he must forget his Fathers house , all his vaine sinfull breeding , and all the filth his soule hath contracted by reason of it .

3. Sinnes of Conversation and company . The Fathers house , and the company of it , is the childs company , those of his Fathers house , are his owne people . It is true , as well for Religion as any thing else , Magni refert quibuscum convixeris . It is a great matter with whom we converse ; from accompanying with vaine persons , thou shalt learne to bee vaine : Cum lupis ululare . When the soule comes to Christ , it must leave all ; sins thus contracted , they are part of the manders of the Fathers House . Paul left his Pharisaisme that he had learnt at Gamaliels feet .

4. Customary sinnes must bee left . The Child learnes customes in his Fathers House . Customary sinning must be left of that soule that would render it selfe for beauty desireable to Jesus Christ ; Those sinnes which are to the soule as the Leopards spot , and the blacknes of the blackamores skinne . Inded this is hard ; Custome hatcheth a second nature , Jer. 13. 23. How can you that are accustomed to doe evill , do well ? Yet it must bee done , the Fathers house must be forgotten : ill customes must be laid aside , or good ones wil not be taken up .

5. Beloved sinnes must be left . Every thing of the Fathers House almost is deare to the child . But the dearest sinne must bee shaken hands with , Matth. 18. 9. If it bee a right hand it must be cut off : if a right eye , it must be pluckt out . Our Members must be Mortified , Col. 3. 5. Thus the maners of our Fathers house must be forgotten . All sinnes , but especially these sinnes . I proceed now .

Secondly , The soule must forget the Company of its Fathers house . What is that you will say ? I will answer you in two particulars . 1. Our most near and dearest Relations . See Luke 14. 16. If a man commeth to me ( saith Christ ) and hateth not Father , and Mother , and Children , and Brethren , and Wife , and Sisters , yea and his own life also , he is not worthy of mee . He shall not bee so beautifull ; not so beautifull , as that the King shall desire his beauty . As it was said Levi did in another sense , so must the Saint doe in some sense : He must say unto his Father , and to his Mother , I have not seen him , neither must hee acknowledge his Brethren , nor know his owne children . Otherwise he will never have Levie's Character , to bee one that observeth the Lords Word and keeps his Covenant . Not that Religion teacheth , or commandeth , or indureth a Saint to break the tyes of all Religion ; No , besides that it doth not discharge a Saint of his Duty of Nature ; it puts in a Plea also against such unnaturalnesse ; Honour thy Father and Mother , &c. is the fifth Commandement , the first with promise ( saith the Apostle ) neither doth it allow a Saint to rob his parents of their due , with saying , Corban , it is a gift : The Ravens of the valleys shall picke out the eyes of such persons , as well as the Devill hath done of their Religion . Neither doth it discharge a Saint of his providentiall duty , and respect to his relation . Hee that provides not for his Family is worse than an Infidell . 1. In point of due honour . 2. In point of naturall affection . 3. In point of Providentiall care . Wee must not forget the Company of our Fathers House . Gods Commands doe not enterfiere , nor will the Gospell in that case give a supersedeas to the Law . But 1. if God and they draw severall wayes , if the Parents commands crosse Gods , then 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 , It is better to obey God than men : The Parent is to command for God , not against him , subordinately , not supremely ; he must be obeyed for Gods sake , and God too for his sake , as by his command he seconds God ; but Parents can as little , yea less discharge the child of its duty to God , than the Pope can discharge the Subject of his Allegiance to his Prince . 2. If their love becken us out of the way when God calls us , or would intice us to make halts in our running through fire and water to him , then wee must forget them . I have somewhere met with a Speech of St. Hierome to that purpose : Saith hee , If the Lord Christ should call me to him , though my Father should lye in my way , and my Mother should hang about my neck , I would goe over my Father , and shake off my Mother , and runne to my Christ . Shetterden a Martyr ( as it is storied of him ) writ to his Mother thus ; Dear Mother , imbrace the Counsell of Gods Word with Heart and Affection , read it with obedienee , so shall we meet in joy at the last day , Or else I bid you farewell for ever . In these now and such like cases , that soule that would make its beauty desireable in the eyes of Jesus Christ , must like Levi say to his Father and his Mother , I have not seen you ; in these cases he must not acknowledge his Brethren , nor know his owne Children : They stand in Christs way , and Christ calls hastily . The Saint must spare no time to parley . Naturall affection with them he must forget his Fathers house , the deare company of it , his Relations .

Secondly , all sinfull Company is the Company of our Fathers house , The Company of fooles , as Solomon calls it . Now all this must be forgotten , or else in stead of being saved , thy soule will bee destroied . Prov. 13. 20. A Companion of fooles shall bee destroied . Psalme 119. 63. I am a companion ( saith David ) of those that fear thee . You must leave your swearing Company , and your drinking Company , and your vain Company , or the King will never desire your beauty . The soul that would render it selfe desireable in the eyes of the Lord Jesus Christ , must make all its delight , ( with David ) in those that excell in vertue , the Saints upon the earth . Saul before his Conversion was a companion of those that stoned Stephen , and persecuted the Saints . Like to like , for himselfe consented to his death , and was a Persecutor ; but no sooner had the Lord made his Motion to him , but he forgat this company , and assayed to joyne himselfe to the Church .

Thirdly , the soule that would render its beauty desireable in Jesus Christs eyes , must forget the Honour and Pompe , and Riches and Greatnesse of his Fathers house , all the high-Towers and Treasures of it , &c. They that will be Christs Disciples must not take up Crownes , and advance themselves , and follow him : No , they must deny themselves , and take up the crosse and follow him ; their Crownes must be of Thornes , made after their Masters Coppy : They must not be such as love the uppermost roomes at Feasts , and the chiefe seats of the Synagogues , and Greetings in the Market , and to be called of men Rabbi , Rabbi . Bee not yee call'd Rabbi ( saith Christ ) for one is your Master , even Christ , and all yee are brethren . Hee that is greatest amongst them that are Saints , must be as a Servant , Matth. 23. 7 , 8 , 9 , 10. They must forget that naturall it ching which is in the children of Adam usually , and must be scratched with Madam , or Rabbi , or some high-swelling words of vanity : they must not bee such , as will swell ( like that Toad Haman ) if Mordecay give him not the knee , or if their Brother give them not the wall or the way ; Saints are no such creatures ; they are such as are not at all taken with any such high titles ▪ but Rom. 12. 10. In honour they prefer one before another . And they must look upon it as the greatest honor in the world , not that they are masters , and descended — atavis Regibus , of great Parentage . &c. but that they are servants of Jesus Christ ; the name of Christian ( the badge of honour first created at Antioch ) must appeare to them , better than the names of Lord or Lady . Theodosius was wont ( they say ) more to glory that hee was a servant of Christ , than that hee was Emperour of the East . Now I say , That soule that would make its beauty desirable to Christ , must forget all these , not affect any of them , not value them ; for hee that exalteth himselfe shall bee abased , and he that humbleth himselfe shall be exalted . Behold a miracle ( saith Mat. 23. 12. ( saith Augustine ) God is an high God ( yea , the most high ) yet the higher thou liftest up thy selfe , the further thou art off him ; the lower thou humblest thy selfe , the nearer he drawes to thee ; he looks neare to the humble , that he may raise them up , but sees the proud afarre off , that hee may depresse them . The proud Pharisee prest as neare God as hee could , the poore Publican durst not , but stood afarre off ; God was farre from the one and neare to the other . The high towers of the fathers house must bee forgotten , yea , and so must all the rich coffins and chests of it : these are part of the furniture of our fathers house . You know what Christ said to the young man , when he seemed to bee in love with Christ , Matth. 19. 21. If thou wilt be perfect , if thou wilt make thy beauty a desirable beauty , Goe , and sell all that thou hast , and give to the poore , and thou shalt have treasure in heaven , and come and follow mee , and againe v. 24. It is easier for a camell to goe through the eye of a needle , than for a rich man to enter into the kingdome of God . You know what Christ saies , Mat. 11. 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 , the poore are those that are gospellized . But to proceed yet .

The soule that would render its beauty desirable in Christs eyes , must forget the pleasures and vanities of its fathers house , all that is in the world , 1 Joh. 2. 16. whether it be the lust of the eyes , or the lust of the flesh , or the pride of life . When the Apostle speaks of lovers of pleasures , he puts in more than lovers of God , 2 Tim. 3. 4. Jude tels us , such as are sensuall have not the spirit , Jude 18. 19. Iob in the description of the wicked , Job . 21. 12 , 13. tels us , that they are such as take up the tymbrell and harpe , and rejoyce at the sound of the Organ , their children dance , they spend their dayes in wealth , &c. These are they that say unto God , Depart from us , for we desire not the knowledge of his wayes . What is the Almighty that wee should serve him ? and what profit is there , that we should pray unto him , v. 15. Their fiddles must be laid in the water of true repentance and contrition . The daughters of pleasure must undresse , if they will be beautifull in Christs eyes ; they must lay aside their paintings and dressings , their curlings and perfumings of the haire , where ( as hee wittily sayes ) the powder doth forget the dust ; their ornament must not be the outward adorning of plaiting the haire , and of wearing gold , and putting on of apparell ; but the hidden man of the heart in that which is not corruptible , even the ornament of a meek and quiet spirit , which is in the sight of God of great price , 1 Pet. 3. 3 , 4. The daughters of pleasure must undresse ( I say ) for the Lord , as he threatned hee would doe in the day of judgement , Is . 3. 18 , 19 , 20. so in the day of mercy , to the soule of the vaine creature , hee will also take away the bravery of t●eir tinckling ornaments about their feet , and their cauls , and their round tyres like the moone , the chaines , and the bracelets , and the mufflers , the bonnets , and the ornaments of the legs , and the head-bands , and the tablets , and the eare-rings , and the rings , and the nose jewels , the changeable suits of apparell , and the mantles , and the wimples , and the crisping pinnes , and the glasses , and the fine linnen , and the hoods , and the vailes , and instead of these send in mercy , a girding with sackcloth , a rent heart , and a weeping eye , and a serious soule . It was a sure rule that a Divine once gave to another , enquiring of him why he did not perswade a Gentlewoman ( with whom hee was acquainted ) to leave off some vaine dresses shee wore ; ( Saith hee ) I will first perswade her to get Christ into her heart , and then shee will leave these of her selfe . The soul that hath Christ in his heart , need not to be perswaded to leave its fidling and dancing , and love songs , and vaine dresses , and paintings , and revellings , and naked breasts ; it knowes these will not make its beauty desirable in Christs eyes ; and it is lost labour to perswade others to it . When Solomon forsooke God , then he ran to pleasures and vanities , and sought every thing that should please his carnall eye , and tickle his vaine fancy ; but he no sooner returnes to Christ , but hee sayes of mirth it is madnesse , and of laughter what doth it ? Christians you must forget these , or Christ will overlook you . Tertullian call'd the unvailed virgins of Tetull . in lib. de velandis virginibus . his time Capita Nundinalitia , and Pudor ostentatitiae Virginitatis , Phrases I will not English . You must forget the pleasures and vanities of your fathers house : that is the fourth . I will instance but in one thing more .

Fiftly and lastly , You must forget the Religion and Righteousnesse of your fathers house . Indeed , there is not much there , it may quickly bee all forgotten ; but what there is must all bee forgotten . There is a conceited Religion , at least , a selfe-righteousnesse , which is naturall to all the sons of Adam . Master Hooker gives this reason for it , because our first father Adam was worth so much hee could have gone to Heaven upon his own legs . Now as it is with a young spenthrift , though hee hath spent all his fathers estate , and be not worth a groat , yet hee cannot abide to think hee should bee a worse man than his father ; so it is with the sons of Adam , because hee could once have done enough for heaven , wee that are his children , though he lost all his power before hee died , yet we cannot endure to think our selves worse than our father , and are ready to think heaven may be erned still , and we may doe something for our selves . The young man , Mat. 19. was at it , Master , what good thing should I doe to inherit everlasting life ? and so the converts at Peters Sermon , Acts 2. and the Jaylour , Acts 16. What shall we doe to bee saved ? hence is Morality and Civility taken up by some , and formality in duties taken up by others , and man pitcheth his staffe in himselfe , and resolves there to rest ; but this must bee forgotten if ever we would be desirably beautifull in Jesus Christs eyes ; for all our Righteousnesses are as menstruous clothes , and as a filthie ragge in the sight of God , Is . 64. 6. and againe , Matth. 5. 20. Except your righteousnesse exceed the righteousnesse of the Scribes and Pharisees you shall never enter into the Kingdom of God . Civility rested in ( saith a Divine of our owne ) is but a beautifull abomination , it is but a smooth way to hell . It is true , in the world a civill man is valued at an high rate , because the world is full of grosse profanenesse , and outrageous wickednesse ; but Civility is like the Cab of 2 Kin. 6. 25 Doves dung , or the asses head : the latter was worth fourscore pieces of silver , and the fourth part of the first valued at five pieces of silver ; but it was because there was a famine in Samaria . This is that makes Civility rated so high in the world , but in it selfe it is worth nothing , and Formality in duties as little , though it amounts to as much as the Pharisees fasting twice a week , and praying thrice a day , and paying tythe of all that hee hath . Notwithstanding all this , all God , I thank thee , I am not , &c. yet the poor wretch is poore , and miserable , and blind , and naked . All this must bee left , and another righteousnesse sought and found , before the soule comes up to a desirable beauty . And thus I have shewed what of our fathers house , and our own people must be forgot .

Let me come in the next place , to shew you how , and how farre these things must be left and forgot ; To that I answer .

1. Some of these must be absolutely forgot . The manners of our fathers house , all sinne and wickednesse must be so forgot , Is . 55. 7. Let the wicked man forsake his way , and the unrighteous man his thoughts , Hos. 14. 8. Ephraim shall say , what have I to do with Idols . There must bee no willing purposed practice of any sinne how dear soever , how accustomed soever , however acquired , how long soever lived in ; the wicked man must forsake his way , the evill of our doings must be put away ; evill must bee eschewed , so must sinfull company too .

2. The rest of them must bee secundum quid forgotten , in a great measure . Our relations must not be doted upon , our honours and worldly glory not hunted after , nor must our hearts be taken with them ; wee must not be lovers of pleasure , wee must not rest in our righteousnesse , not dote upon it ; our heat of affection to these things , the running out of our hearts to them , the fixing of our hearts upon them , this must be forgotten , &c.

3. Conditionally they must bee forgotten . If they clash with Christs commands , if our Relations would draw us from Christ , or retard our way to Christ ; if in our acts of love to them we must forget the commands of Christ , that either wee must not obey God in our places , or wee must break with them , and not be thought to love them , in this sense they ought to bee forgotten , yea , to bee hated . Christ in this case call'd Peter Sathan ; this is Christs command , Luk. 14. 26. If our honours and glory in the world would lie in the way , to keep us from stooping to Christs command ; and from thence our flesh it would fetch such conclusions as these , It is not fit for so great a person as you to have such strictnesse in duties , to be acquainted with such meane creatures ( as many Saints are ) to go to Church so often , to be at private meetingt so much , &c. In this case we must forget them . If our riches begin to stick to our heart , and to tempt our heart from God , that wee cannot enjoy them , but our hearts will cleave to them , In such a case a Christian shall bee a saver , if ( as Crates threw his gold into sea , that hee may study Philosophy ) hee also throw away his estate to study Jesus Christ . If our pleasures be such , as in the substance ( if such shadowes have any ) are sinfull , or draw away the heart too much from God , take up our Church-time , or family duty-time , or secret duty-time , &c. in such case they must bee forgot too .

4. Comparatively they must be forgot . God must be greater than they in the throne of our heart , wee must not love father , nor mother , nor daughter , nor wife , nor child , more than Christ . So Mathew expounds that place , Luk. 14. 26. in Matth. 10. 37. wee must not be lovers of any pleasures more than of Christ , nor of house , or lands , or honour , or any piece of vanity under the Sunne . This is plaine , for we must love Christ with all our heart and soule ; and though the second commandment bee , thou shalt love thy neighbour as thy selfe , yet it doth not say , Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thy Christ .

5. Lastly , In effect they must be forgot . Christians must doe as if they had no relations ; they may rejoyce , and buy , and sell , and purchase , and use the world , but marke how , it is in a forgetting manner , 1 Cor. 7. 30. they that rejoyce must be as if they rejoyced not , and they that buy as if they possest not , and they that use the world as if they used it not . Christians may be called by their titles of Rabbi , and my Lord , and Madam ; but while they are so , they must have a scornfull , low , slight , esteeme of these swelling words of vanity , not despising the meanest of Gods Saints , but ready in honour to preferre them above themselves , and accounting the title of Christian , of a servant of God , to be a greater title of honour than worldly dignities can invest them with . And now I have finished my first taske in the explication of the doctrine , in which I have shewed you , what of our fathers house must be forgotten . 2. How farre we must forget it .

The second thing I propounded , was to shew you how that soule is beautifull , with what beauty the soule is beautifull that thus forgets its owne people , and its fathers house . This I shall shew you , 1. Negatively . 2. Positively .

1. Not with a corporall beauty , this makes not the flesh beautifull . It ads no lustre to flesh and blood , possibly it may discolour that .

2. Not by a native beauty , no naturall beauty . The beauty that will appeare in the soule , upon this selfe deniall , is not like the beauty of the face which appears after washing off dirt , which clouded natures colours .

3. Not in the eye of the vaine creature , nor in its owne eyes . Aske a vaine creature , he will tell you , that the leaving of vaine dresses , and patches , and plaitinge of the haire , is the way to make the creature look like no body , to make it despised in the world , &c. and such a one perhaps lothes and abhors it selfe as a vile creature , Jo. 42. 6. Thus it shall not be beautifull , and it is no matter whether it be or no. But secondly such a soule shall bee beautifull these three wayes .

1. Imputatione , By the beauty of Christ put upon it ; see for this that notable place , Ezech. 16. 8 , 9 , 10 , 11 , 12 , 13 , 14. Then wast thou decked with silver and gold , and thy rayment was of fine linnen , and silke , and broidered worke . — and thou wert exceeding beautifull . — And thy renowne went forth amongst the heathen for thy beauty , for it was perfect through the comelinesse which I had put uppon thee ( saith the Lord God . ) Christ makes the reflexion of his beauty to bee cast upon such a soule , and it becomes beautifull through his comelinesse ; the soules doing these things , doth not make it spiritually any more than corporally beautifull , but ( they being done ) it becomes comely through Christs comelinesse , comely through a comelinesse that is put upon it , that 's the first way . Secondly , It is beautifull ,

2. Through Christs Aceeptation , Of free grace ; Christ said to the young man in the 19 of Matth. Sell all thou hast , &c. and thou shalt have treasure in heaven , not thou shalt earne it , but thou shalt have it . Christ accepts the soule as beautifull , and accounts the soule as beautifull , that for his sake will forget its owne people , and its fathers house , Cant. 4. 1. Behold , thou art faire ( my love ) behold , thou art faire , thou hast doves eyes , &c.

3. Such a soule is beautifull , though not in the worlds eyes , yet in the Saints eyes ; The world will hate and despise them , but the Saints will love and value them , Cant. 6. 1. the Daughters of Hierusalem say unto the spouse , whither is thy beloved gone , O thou Fairest amongst women , the daughters of Hierusalem , the Saints , account such a soule beautifull . It may bee that shee may call her selfe black , the greatest of sinners , and the least of Saints , yea , and the world may so call her ; but those that are godly shall esteeme her comely , and the King shall desire her beauty . And that leads me to the last particular in the explication of the Doctrine .

3. What is the meaning of that phrase , The King shall desire thy beauty .

1. Generally . It is a speech according to the manner of men , Gen. 4. 7. it is said of the husband toward the wise , Vnto thee shall be his desire . And wee meet with that phrase , Deut. 21. 11. when thou seest amongst the Captives a beautifull woman , and thy desire shall be towards her , to make her thy wife .

2. But more particularly , I think the true meaning of the phrase may bee understood in these particulars .

First of all it implies , That the Lord Jesus Christ shall discover and see an excellency in such a soule ; we can desire nothing , but we shall first discover some excellency in it . Now the Lord discovers an excellency in such a soule ; hee shall eye such a soule as an excelling soule , as a lovely soule , worthy of him ( though not through its owne worthinesse ) and suitable for him .

2. It implies , That the Lord Jesus Christ shall love such a soule , discovering in it a suitable excellency ; he shall love it , his heart will be ravished with it , Cant. 4. 9. Thou hast ravished my heart , my sister , my spouse , thou hast ravished my heart . Christs affections will be drawne out to a soule that so forgets it selfe , his heart will bee melting towards it , and on fire for it ; there must first bee a love in the soule to the object , before the heart bee drawne forth to covet an union with it .

3. It implies , That the Lord Christ will in his heart preferre such a soule ; when a mans desire is towards a particular woman , to make her his wife , he preferres her above other women ; his desire is not to her sex , but to her , to her rather than ten thousand others . The Lords desire shall bee towards such a soule , As you have heard described to you , that hee will preferre her above ten thousand of his creatures , though the Lord sees thousands of his creatures , hundreds in a congregation , that the world dotes upon , some for their faire faces , and on others for their brave parts , this Eliab and the other Shammah ; yet the Lord that sees all , and can judge best , lets Eliab and Shammah passe , and fixeth his eye upon this selfe denying ( in the world ) despised creature , and upon it hee fixeth his heart , and prizeth such a soule above all the other trumperies and kickshawes of beauty . The Lord culs out such a soule , his desire is towards her , shee is the Esther hee picks out , and such a soul is more preferred in Christs eye , than this witty man or woman , or that gallant , this Lord or that Lady , Christ hath no desire to them , but to this soule his desire is .

4. It implies , That Jesus Christ will indeavour and effect an union , and enjoy such a soule ; what is the meaning of that phrase , the man's desire shall be to his wife , but he shall desire to be joyned in marriage to her , that they may bee no longer twaine , but one flesh ? and if his desire be towards her , and it be a feasible thing he will effect it , if shee consent and friends consent , &c. The Lords desire shall be to the soule , that is , the Lord Jesus Christ shall indeavour , yea , and unite himselfe to effect an union with such a soul , he shall wooe it , yea , and shee shall yield , for when hee works who can let him ? Christ will marry himselfe to such a soule , make a marriage covenant , and tie himselfe in a marriage bond to it ; for though in man desire may bee frustrated , so that desire and enjoyment are two things , yet it is necessarily to be understood in Christs desiring , whose power is such , that hee shall not need starve his desire longer than he pleaseth .

5. It implies , That the Lord Jesus Christ will court neare communion with such a soule ; mark how he speaks to the Spouse , Cant , 2. 14. O my Dove , that art in the clefts of the rocks , in the secret places of the staires , let me heare thy voice , for sweet is thy voice , and thy countenance comely ; hee will not onely have communion , but hee will covet communion with such a soule ; hee will desire to have it draw nigh , and dwell in his presence , to have it come neare him in a duty , in an ordinance , &c.

6. Lastly , Hee will love such a soule with a constant and inseparable love , it is said , The King shall desire thy beauty , he shall desire it , and never cease desiring of it , hee shall for ever desire thy beauty . And thus I have opened to you all the three termes , now I come to the second taske . As I have gone along in opening the generals in severall particulars , I have proved the Doctrine that it is so . But may some say , what ground is there that the Lord Jesus Christ should desire this of every soule that hee will love and marry and have communion with , that it should thus forsake its owne people , and its fathers house ? why should Christ hold the soule to this hard meat ? I shal therefore in the next place shew you the reasons of it : And there is a very great deale of Reason for it .

1. Because it is the very law of marriage , Gen. 2. 24. Therefore shall a man forsake father and mother , and cleave to his wife . The Lord Christ marries himselfe to the soule . It is written , I will betroth thee unto mee ; yea , I will betroth thee unto mee : for this cause the soule shall forsake its owne people , and its fathers house , and shall cleave to its Christ ; for this cause because the soule is married , or about to marry to the Lord Jesus Christ , and therefore must look to doe as married persons use to doe , leave all for their husband .

2. A second reason is , because while the soule lives at home with its owne people , and at its fathers house , it cannot be beautifull nor desirable . Our owne people are a filthie people , our fathers house a nastie house ; the soule while it hath left that cannot be beautifull nor desirable . The most beautifull creature you know , if shee bee brought up by sluttish people ( as wee say ) and goes in a filthy habit , there is a cloud cast over her beauty . So it is with a soule , while it hath left its sins and vaine company , and pride , and ambition , and pleasures , and riches , and selfe-righteousnesse , it cannot be beautifull in Christs eyes . Now beauty is the attractive of the soule , the soule must see a beauty , in that , which it lets out it selfe to in desiring : let that be a second reason .

3. Because there cannot bee a cleaving to Christ , unlesse there be a parting with these . Christ requires the highest love of our soules , it is the first commandement you know ( with our Saviours glosse upon it ) Thou shalt love the Lord thy God , with all thy heart , and all thy soule . Hence Christ tels us , no man can serve two masters , you cannot serve God and Mammon ; that soule that will hug sin must hate God ; that soule that will be a companion of Jesus Christ , and a companion of Saints , must not be a companion of sinners , for what fellowship hath Christ with Belial , righteousnesse with unrighteousnesse , light with darknesse , the temple of God with Idols , and so the rest ? Your soule cannot love two thengs with an highest love . 2. You cannot in heart truly cleave to two contraries . There is a third reason , especially if you consider ,

4. That God is a jealous God : you meet with the phrase often , and given as a reason , why they should doe this or that , For the Lord thy God is a jealous God . Jealousie is a passion in the soule , non patiens consortium in re amatà ( saith Aquinas ) that will not indure , or that makes the soule that it will not indure any sharing in the object beloved . The woman that hath a jealous husband must leave all her old companions . Christian , thy God is a jealous God , if therefore thou wouldst have him desire thy beauty , if thou wouldst have him care for thee , thou must forget thine owne people , and thy fathers house . I will adde but one reason more . Lastly ,

5. Because It is the will of Christ . It was the Apostles precept , that wives should obey their husbands . Now selfe deniall is a great piece of Christs command . It is his first request , Hee that will be my Disciple let him deny himselfe ; selfe deniall is the first of Christianity . He that hath not learned this , hath not learned the A , B , C , of Christianity , not so much as the Christ-crosse row , as you call it . Here should bee reason enough if 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 , [ hee hath said so ] was enough in Pithagoras his schoole , to put the businesse past disputing amongst his schollers , I am sure it should bee much more in Christs schoole , wee will therefore enquire no further reason for it . Let mee now come to application .

I shall apply it , by way 1. Of Instruction . 2. Of Examination . 3. Of Consolation . 4. Of Exhortation .

It may serve to instruct us in the truth of severall Positions , I will only pick out some few .

1. It may instruct us , That the most part of the world , yea , of those that the world most esteemes of , and sets the highest rate and value upon , are poore , indesirable , uncomely wretches , in the eyes of Jesus Christ . Christ's eye sees not as mans eye seeth , man seeth beauty , where Christ seeth none ; man seeth a desirablenesse , where Christ's eye seeth none ; man dotes upon what Christ cares not for ; man calleth the proud blessed , but the Lord's soule abhorreth them ; they have not yet left their owne people , and their fathers house . You see many a gallant strut it in the world , and who but they are the people of fashion ( as you call them ) the glory , the beauty of the world , every one admires them , &c. many that in respect of their wisdome , or parts , or behaviour , and civility , are the desire of those amongst whom they live , and there is not one in ten of all these that the Lord Jesus Christ hath any desire too ; they are poore , uncomely , indesirable creatures in Christ's eyes , notwithstanding all their honour , and greatnesse , and nobility , notwithstanding all their beauty , whether naturall or artificiall , borrowed from the Painter or Taylor , notwithstanding all these Christ seeth no excellency in them at all . The vaine creature dotes , Christ scornes ; the vain creature loves , Christ sees no lovelinesse in them , but looketh upon them black with the soot of hell , eyes their countenance , all blots , and their soules too , the vaine creature preferres them : there 's many a poore creature that lives in a cottage , that is at an higher rate in Christ's thoughts ; the poore wormes soule is carried out to desire matches , an union and a communion . with them . Jesus Christ scornes them , and hath no desire either to any union , or to enjoy any communion with them : Christ saith of such vaine creatures , There go poor wretches that my soule loathes , I am sick of them , ashamed of them as my creatures ; And is this nothing to you ? O you sons and daughters , is this nothing to you ? it vexeth you to think that you live in a place where none desires you , and if you were gone none would lament you : It was an untoward character of an unworthy Emperour ; & is it no trouble to you to think I live not desired , not cared for of Jesus Christ ? Zeph. 2. 1. The Lord cals his people to repentance under this notion ; Gather together , O nation not desired . O that it might call you to some serious thoughts , vaine creatures ! you are people not desired of the Lord Jesus Christ , as uncomely , and despised in his eyes , as you are beautifull , and admired in the eyes of men ; nay , and more , and let me tell you in your eares , and ( oh that it may make your hearts rend , and your eares tingle ) if you be not desired of him here , you shall never enjoy him , nor be enjoyed of him bereafter . Haman was such a poore wretch , the King had ennobled him , every hat and knee did him homage , and took notice of the Kings respects to him , at last hee came to the gibbet ; have a care poore creatures else , though you compasse your selves about with sparkes , poore sparkes of friends , honours , riches , pleasures ; sparks that will extinguish as quickly as rise , yet this , and onely this , you shall have at the Lords hand , you shall lie downe in sorrow , everlasting sorrow ; you shall lie down in hell . It is an ill place to leave you in , but the Lord pluck you as firebrands out of the burning . I passe on .

2. From what you have heard you may be instructed , which way the way to heaven lies ; and 2. That it is no easie way , we are all pilgrims and strangers here , we were bred so , our fathers were so . Now the journies end which all pretend to ( though the most ride backward ) the coast which all say they are bound for ( which way soever their compasse guides them ) is Heaven , this is omnibus in Voto , though few so runne that they may obtaine . But hath any blind or misled traveller a mind to know the way ? Is any poore soule startled this day ? doth hell-fire flash in any of your faces , and are you crying out , Sir , What shall we doe to be saved ? which way lies our way to heaven ? Learne hence , that the next way to heaven is not the beaten road , but quite crosse Natures-fields , and so through the long street of selfe-deniall , and up the mountaine of holinesse , at the top of which you shall see God ; it lies over hedge and ditch , over rockes and mountaines : you must leave your youth sinnes as you goe on your right hand , your education and custome sinnes on your left hand , your beloved sinnes behind you ; if your father , or mother , or husband , or wife , or brother , or sister , or child lie in your way , you must make no halts , but over their necks ; if all your vaine acquaintance , your drunken , swearing , wanton companions , stand of each side and becken you another way , you must decline their invitation and go quite crosse ; you must tread upon all your glory and pompe , and greatnesse ; you must avoid the mountaine of Gold , and the rocks of Pearle ; you must take heed of the pleasant brook of carnall and vain pleasures ; avoid your dancing , and painting , and patching , and decking your selves : In short , you must put your selfe in an habit fit to carry a crosse , This is the next way to heaven . And now I need not tell you in the second place , That strait is the way , and narrow is the gate that leads to everlasting life , and few there be that find it . By this time you will know , that if you will goe to heaven you must goe like , and with , very few in this age of wantonnesse and dotage . By this time you will easily ghesse sinners are out of the way , and proud men are out of the way ; those that glory in riches , and worldly greatnesse , are out of the way ; the carelesse daughters of Sion , that stretch out their necks , and mince it as they goe , are out of the way ; the selfe-righteous men are out of the way . Ah Lord ! who are in it ? Heaven is a difficult journey , it is an hard way to find , it is hard to flesh and blood to doe these things . It was the Martyrs speech , that the crosse way was the way to heaven . The way to heaven is astrait way , no dancing way , dancers must have the elbowroome of hell-road ; they that will walke in this strait way must croud , they must not thinke to walk thither in state ; no , they must croud , and never bee afraid of wrimpling a neat handkerchiefe or cuffe , it is not opus pulvinaris ( said one ) but pulveris , you shall be sure to meet with all the opposition that nature can make , all the forces of flesh and bloud , and all the forces the devill can adde ; who then shall be saved ? even those that God hath appointed to life , those to whom the Lord shall give such an heart as I have told you , strait is the way , and few there be that find : If you will have a broader way you may , Mat. 7. 13 , 14. but then you must not look for the same journies end . The Lord give you hearts to consider it , and feare to tremble at it .

3. And from hence thirdly , you may bee instructed , that it must bee something more than nature that must make a poore soule beautifull , and desirably beautifull in Jesus Christs eyes . It must neither bee naturall beauty will doe it , nor yet naturall parts ; no , nor natures glory , nor the best of nature , naturall righteousnesse , Matth. 5. 20. It must be something more than flesh and bloud , yea , something more than flesh and bloud can helpe us with . But I passe over this .

4. From hence fourthly , you may be instructed , What an infinit love the Lord Jesus Christ hath loved his Saints with , 1 Joh. 3. 1. Behold ( saith the Apostle ) with what manner of love the father hath loved you with , that you should be call'd the sonnes of God . Here hee sayes , hearken O Daughter ; the Daughter of a King is honourable , but the daughter of the King of Kings is much more honourable . But ( if I may say it ) here seemes to be a degree of love beyond it , the Kings wife is more honourable than the Kings daughter . Behold therefore ( O yee upright in heart ) with what manner of love the Lord Jesus Christ hath loved you , that hee should desire your beauty ; not only love you , but if uncomely , poor wretches , make you beautifull , according to that , Ezech. 16. 13 , 14. nay , not only so , but desire your beauty ; not onely like it , but desire it ; O love ! infinit love ! when David sent his servants to let Abigail know that hee desired her beauty , marke how she admires at it , 1 Sam. 25. 41. shee arose and bowed her selfe on the earth , and said , Behold , let thine handmaid bee a servant , to wash the feet of the servants of my Lord , Doe you heare this newes , O yee daughters of men ? doe you heare this newes ? that the King of glory , the Lord Jesus Christ , that hath no need of you , that is infinitly above you , hath sent me this day to tell you , that hee desires your beauty . Rise up , O yee Saints , bow your selves , and say , Let us be servants to wash his feet , &c. Let us bee the doore-keepers of his house , his meanest servants . No Christians , you shall be his sons and daughters : Nay , hearken O daughters , here 's more for you , The King desires your beauty ; Spell this love at leisure , and now w●sh your soules , follow after Jesus Christ , study it with your most serious thoughts , live to it with strictest lives . What conversation becommeth the gospell ? what manner of persons should you be ? Follow on , make haste and rise , and follow him , singing , crying , as you goe , O the heighth , and depth , the incomprehensible heighth ! the unfadomable depth of love wherewith the Lord Jesus Christ hath loved sinners , before the beginning of the world , &c. And lastly .

5. Can you learn a lesse result from hence than this , that Saints selfe-denying , despised Saints , are happy creatures ; Terque quaterque beati , blessed againe , and againe . Surely you have not heard mee all this while , but you are preventing me in the words of the Psalmist . Happy are the people that are in such a case ; yea , blessed are the people that have the Lord for their God ; we may say of them , O nimium dilectis Deo , creatures strangely beloved of their God , strangely happy in this , that the King should desire their beauty . Let the world scorne one , let them put out the finger and barke at the moone , let them mock puritanisme , let the way of holinesse be every where spoken against , pro hominum arbitrio , let them talke , so long as you gaine ; you dance before the ark though Michal mock out at the window : You shall be more beautifull , the more vile they think you ; it is for the Kings sake , that hath desired your beauty and scornd theirs ; for the Kings sake , that hath chosen you to obtaine everlasting life through Jesus Christ , but hath ordained them to wrath , and neglected their beauty . One would not think now , that these creatures that ravish Christs heart , should offend worldlings eyes so much : surely Christ should have no judgement , if these were the contemptible ones of the earth , the unlovely creatures . Well well , Christians , let them mocke on , after the way which they call simplicity and foolery , moping ; &c. worship thou the God of thy fathers ; thou shalt have thy pleasures , when they shall have torments ; thou shalt have thy crowne and honour , when the pride of their glory shall bee stained , and that shall lie in the dust . These children of vanity forget what Abraham ( though something too late to doe him good ) advised their brother to remember , Luk. 16. 25. That in their life time they received good things , and those precious Lazarus'es , evill things , but yet a little while and you shall be comforted , and they tormented ; yet a little while and you shall be honoured , and they shall be cursing the wombe that bare them , and the paps that gave them suck , cursing the honour that ruin'd them , the pleasures that damned them , the worldly glory which hath made them inglorious for ever ; yet a little while and instead of their sweet smels they shall have the stinkes of fire and brimstone , and instead of their girdles rentings of heart for ever , instead of their well-set haire they shall have baldnesse ; they shall spend more time in rending and tearing their haire , than ever they did in curling or powdring it . Yet a little while , and instead of their stomachers , they shall have girdings with sackcloth , & everlasting burnings instead of their present beauty . But blessed shall you bee , for you shall shine like the Sun in the firmament of the father , for the King hath desired your beauty . I have at last done with my first use of Instruction : I proceed now to a second , and that shall bee of examination .

Are you willing now to know , Christians , whether Jesus Christ cares for you yea or no ? whether you be desirable in his eyes yea or no ? heaven and hell hang upon this thing ; Trie whether you have forgotten your owne people , and your fathers house .

The most men and women are afraid of the touchstone , and are willing rather to take heaven for granted , though they find hell for certaine ; but this is not safe with you . Trie your selves then ( Christians ) I will helpe you a little in so good a work .

1. If you have forgotten your fathers house , you have ( first ) seene a great deale of folly and vanity in it : Man is a reasonable creature , and will never leave any thing , but he will see some cause to leave it . Did the Lord ever yet convince you throughly , not with a Notionall , but an heart conviction of the folly of your fathers house ? Did the Lord ever throughly convince you of your evill wayes , the sinnes of your natures , the customary sinnes of your lives , of your education sinnes , and your beloved sinnes ? Had you ever a through conviction of the vanity of your evill company , the vanity of your pleasures and carnall delights ? Did your soules ever tast a reall bitternesse in them ? if not , I feare me you have not left them .

2. Have you had another excellency discovered to your soules ? Had your souls ever yet a reall discovery made to you of the excellency of the wayes of holines , these wayes that you once hated ? Doe you now see a beauty , a glory in them , so much that you can even stand , and hold up your hands and admire , that you should be blind so long ? A present pleasant thing will scarce bee left , but upon a discovery of , and an obtaining of something more excellent . Christians , under what notion do you look upon Christ , and his wayes ? Do you look upon them as excellent , the wayes of strictnesse , as excellent , sanctifying a Sabboth , praying , the frequenting of the communion of Saints ? Doe you look upon them as excellent ? If you doe not , I feare mee , you but cheat your selves with a conceit , that you have forgot your fathers house .

3. If you have parted with them I am afraid it cost you some teares , you did not part with so many friends with drie eyes ; friends cannot ordinarily pats without teares , but your weeping hath not beene such a weeping if it hath been true ; it hath not been , because you have parted with them , but because you abode with them so long ; it hath for measure been like the mourning of him that hath lost his onely begotten sonne , Zach. 12. 10. but not upon the same account , not because you must now part with them , but because you embraced them so long . See the effects of godly sorrow , 2 Cor. 7. 11. it worketh carefulnesse and indignation , &c. Were your soules ever in such a true bitternesse for sinne , that it wrought in thee an indignation against your selves ; that you could even eat your owne flesh , to think you should ever have been such a vaine , wanton wretch , such a proud sinner as you have been ? This is a good signe you and your fathers house are parted , and that at the parting you sorrowed after a godly sort .

4. If ever you truly parted with it , both at the parting , and since too , you have found something to doe with your owne spirit , some struglings and combatings with your selfe . Before you parted you were at a dispute with your soules ; shall I leave this or that corruption , or shall I not ? and since you have been at some debates with your spirit , shall I goe home againe ? shall I returne to such a vomit ? to such a wallowing in the mire ? even Paul himselfe found the law in his members warring against the law of his mind , and bringing him into captivity to the law of sinne , Rom. 7. 23. the flesh lusting against the spirit , and the spirit against the flesh , and these contrary one to another , Gal. 5. 17. I dare almost say , that that soule never conquerd sinne , that is not yet in combate with it ; never truly overcame it , that is not still in combate ; never yet forgot its fathers house , that hath not some strong inclinations , sometimes to be going to its old home againe , and sometimes finds not that it hath something to doe to keep his heart from ( a second time ) embracing what it hath beene once ashamed of .

5. Doe you make Christ all your delight , and your sole delight ? is hee to you solus desideria , & totus desideria ? Are your hearts taken more with Christ than with all the world besides , and so taken with your husband , that nothing of him , nor from him , displeaseth you ? can you bee content with Christ alone , and say with David to the Lord , Thou art my portion ? could you quest all things else for him ? and is there nothing of him but seemes lovely to you ? doe his strictest lawes seem excellent to you ? Is hee excellent to you in the intent of his Kingly office , as well as in the comfort of his Priestly office ? doth his very yoke seem easie , and his burthen seem light to you ?

6. Do you abide with Christ , as the wife abides with the husband , and the branch abides in the vine ? every true branch abides in him , Joh. 15. 4. is your dwelling with him ? or are you onely religious by fits ? the hypocrite may bee so religions , but the Saint makes the Lord his dwelling place . Which is that which you count your home ? the best of Gods Saints may have some inclinations to vanity , and be sometimes trading with the world ; Ah! but Christ is his home , Christ is his dwelling place ; hee thinkes himselfe in a strange place , when he is not with Christ in duties of holy communion . Christian , which is thy element ? Is your soule in its element , when it is conversing with things below Christ ? that 's an ill signe , by these things you may take a scantling of your owne haarts . The Lord help you in applying these things to your soules . I proceed to a 3d use .

Here 's comfort to the Saints , joy to the upright in heart , especially

1. Against all the uncomelinesse and indesireablenesse the Saint apprehends in himselfe . There 's none so comely as the Saint in Christs eyes , nor any so uncomely and ugly in their owne eyes ; Paul cries out , O wretched man that I am , Rom. 7. 24. and againe , I am as one borne out of due time , the least of the Apostles , not worthy to be call'd an Apostle , 1 Cor. 15. 8 , 9. It is an usuall account the Saints give of themselves , ah wretched creatures , poore indesireable wretches , hard-hearted sinners , vile persons , &c. Bee of good cheare Christian , The King hath desired thy beauty ; thou art black in thine owne eyes , but comely in Christs eyes : Black in respect of thy merit , but comely in respect of imputation ; comely through the comlinesse that hee hath put upon you . Secondly ,

2. Here 's comfort against all the dirt the world casts upon you , all the uncomelinesse they conceit in you ; who so despicable creatures in the eyes of the world , as those men and women whom the Lord delights to honour ? these are the despised ones ; upon the backs of these it is that the Plowers plow , and make long furrowes ; they are the upright in heart , that they privily bend their bow to shoot at , against these are the puttings out of the fingers , and the liftings up of the hands ; upon these are laid all the scoffes of the ungodly , and through their weaknesse the barkings of these dogges sometimes trouble them . But Christians , hath not the King desired your beauty ? the beauty that these wretches are so blind they cannot see . Hath not the King desired it ? Is it desireable in Christs eyes , and despised in their eyes ? which is the best judge , think you ? is it not enough for you , that you please your husband ?

3. Here 's comfort for you , not only against all their scoffes , but against all their low esteeme of you . David saith , I am small , and of no reputation . Christ was accounted the least in the kingdome of Heaven ; hee was the stone which the builders refused . A man of no fashion in the world , who cared for him ? did any of the Pharisees believe on him ? The wife , you know , takes her honour from her husband , and usually , if hee be accounted one of no fashion , shee is not valued at a very high rate ; Saints , though they be indeed the worlds pillars , yet in the vulgar estimate they are the worlds burthens ; and where ever they live , they usually live at a low rate in worldlings desires , if any ( of note before ) turne puritane , hee loseth his rate in the worlds thoughts presently , the Gentleman loseth his honour , the Lady her repute ; but it is because their prizers have lost their wit , and their eyes , and it need not much trouble a Saint , for Christ desires their beauty still : They have put themselves out of the worlds reckoning , and heightend themselves in Christ's esteem . Despise on ( fooles ) the King hath desired these soules beauty ,

Ah! but will a poore misdoubting Christian say , I am afraid they have a true object of laughter in me . I am afraid I have not that desireable beauty , but am a painted sepulchre ; were I but convinced , that I had indeed truly forgot my fathers house , and that the Lord Christ had indeed desired my beauty , I could naile their scoffes to my heeles , and mourne over their gallant follies : But I feare .

1 Obj. Alas ! I am going home to my fathers house ever and anon , I am ready to yield to temptations , ready to fall into sinne ; yea , and the Lord pardon mee , I fall seven times a day . If I had forgot my fathers house , should I have such inclinations to goe home ? would my heart draw so hard for vanity , as it doth sometimes ? should I sinne so often , &c.

I answ. 1. Which way stands your affection ? your heart you say bends that way , but which way stands your affection ? doe you take pleasure in such inclinations ? have you a good mind to sinne , if you durst ? to returne to your old vanities , if you durst ? only you durst not , that 's an ill signe . But upon such inclinations , doth there presently arise a loathing in your soules ? doe you say , Get thee behind mee Sathan , that 's a good signe , that though you be invited by a temptation of vaine company , or the Devill , &c. yet you have truly forgotten your fathers house .

2. You goe home sometimes you say , it may be you fall into some of your former vaine courses , and are with some of your vaine companions . But I pray , What doe you when you are in your fathers house ? are you pleased with your vanities , or with the vanities of your friends ? or doe you spend your time in chiding ? It may be your heart sometimes declines to some vanity , or you are sometimes in converse with vain persons . Are you one with vanity , one with sinners ? or doe your spirits rise against your selves , and against the vanities of those with whom you are ? What indignation is wrought ? if any , you may have forgot your fathers house , for all this going home .

3. You goe home sometimes you say . But I pray , How long doe you stay there ? Is sinne your trade ? Doe you live in knowne sinnes ? this indeed will argue your profession but hypocrisie . But ( on the contrary ) though you fall through weaknesse , yet doe you rise through grace ; though you sinne sometimes , yet is sinne as Davids concupiscence , call'd a stranger in the Parable . Thus the best Saints have sinn'd , yea , and may sinne ; not of wilfulnesse , but of weaknesse ; not trading in sinne , nor lying in it , but falling into it , and rising by repentance .

2. Obj. Ah! but will another Christian say , I cannot deny my selfe in the company of my fathers house , wretch that I am . I got acquaintance when I was young with vaine persons , or I am related to such , and I dare not say , but I love their company , and oft times leave better for them ; neither can I deny my selfe in my relations . My heart is excessively let out after them .

1. Thou saiest thou art oft times yet a companion of vaine persons , but consider ( Christian ) are they thy invited ghests , or accidentall meerly ? are they intruders , or are they the welcome crmpanions of thy life ? are they thy pickt company or no , thy intimates , or meerly companions in respect of thy trade , and converse with the world ? If thou delightest not in them , they indeed are sometimes thy companions , but thou art not theirs .

2. Art thou a companion with them in sinne , or onely in civill actions , or for discourse , &c. sometimes ? if the first indeed it is a signe thou hast not left thy fathers house ; but if the latter onely , it is no such signe , thou keepest thy course , they come to thee , and it may be disturbe thee , but thou doest not goe to them .

3. Thou sayest thou lovest them . But it would be considered , Whether thy love be meerly naturall or more ? It may be thou lovest them because they are witty people , or of ingenuous dispositions . Thus Christ loved the young man , Matth. 19. and thus thou mayest love them . It is an ill signe , if thou lovest them , because they will drinke , or sweare , or bee vain and wanton in their discourse or carriages .

4. Thou sayest thou lovest thy relations , and thou canst not deny thy selfe in them , thy heart is so glued to them , &c. and God forbid but thou shouldst love them , 1. with a naturall affection , it s a signe of a wretch , Rom. 1. 31. to be without naturall affection , and 2. with a providentiall love and care ; hee that provides not for his family ( saith the Apostle ) is worse than an infidell . But 1. Suppose Christ should call thee to suffer for him , and thou hadst a good mind to it , and they should plead hard for thee to spare thy selfe ; wouldst thou with Hierom shake off thy father , and mother , and children , and runne to Christ ? this would bee a signe thou hadst for-got them , Though thou lovest them . 2. Notwithstanding that thou lovest them , wouldst thou favour them in any sinne against God , and onely luke-warmely reprove them , like old Elie ? It is not well done of you , O my sons , because thou lovest them : wilt thou rather let them dishonour God , damn their owne soules , doe any thing , rather than reprove , or smite them ? this love indeed is a reall hatred , and will argue little love to God in thy soule . But on the contrary , though thou lovest them with the tenderest love , & wilt provide for them with the most providential care ; yet is thy love so truly tempered , that it shall not in the least hinder thee from doing thy duty to Christ ; no , nor yet from doing thy duty to them ; from reproving sharply , admonishing severely ? is thy love such , that it shall not blind thy eyes , so as thou wilt wink at the least neglect of duty in them , not at the least sin-in them ? Love them then as wel as thou canst , it shall be no sad evidence against thy soule , otherwise ( Parents look to it ) your children will curse you another day for your love to them : you have heard of killing with kindnesse ; let the kind of death be never so sweet , yet the death will be bitter . Take heed not of killing the bodies ( alas , that were nothing ) but of damning your childrens soules , and your owne too , with miscalled kindnesse .

3 Obj. But wil another Christian say , I have not forgot my honour and glory , I am not low enough , I feare , to get in at heavens gate . I answer first .

1. This is like the melancholy conceit of her , that a Divine of our owne speaks of ; of a woman that conceited , she was so fat , shee could not get to heaven ; it is the lownesse of mind that God looks at , Lords and Ladies , if their hearts be not as high as their titles , may sit in heaven as well as meaner persons . I doe not say , they shall have chaires of state set for them , but they may have a roome there ; it may be one or two may sit above them ( if there bee degrees in glory ) that gave them place here : but as Master Rutherford sayes , the least place in Heaven is Heaven , though it bee behind the doore . But secondly ,

2. Is not thy outward Pompe and glory that which thou affectest , and delightest in it , and huntest after ? Does not thy title tickle thy eare , nor swell thy heart , if not , it can doe thee no hurt ? all the feare of those swelling things is , lest they should breed tympanies in the soule .

3. Doe you look upon the title of the servant of Jesus Christ , the title of Christian , as the farre more honourable title ? Are you of Theodosius his temper , which would you rather chuse , to be call'd my Lord , or Madam , or to be called the servant of Christ ; which doe you preferre ? if the latter , it is a signe you have forgot the former , though you retaine it .

4. Is your outward greatnesse and pompe no snare to your soule in the wayes of God ? Great persons are too ready to think they are above prayers , above hearing , above meane Saints ; should such ones as they pray in their families ; no , let their boy do it ? should they pray in secret , and runne up and downe to lectures ? O no ( forsooth ) it is a dishononour to them ( Heaven was made , I confesse , for the most part , for people of lesser quality , 1 Cor. 1. 26 , 27. James 2. 5. ) should such as they go to private meetings ? no , better go to a taverne , there they shall only foule their soules , but keep their clothes cleane . But now , hath the Lord given thee another spirit ? it is true , thou art great , but thy greatnesse is no such snare to thy soule ; thou canst pray for all thy greatnesse , and heare sermons , and kneele in a duty for all thy silk stockings , and entertain communion with the meanest Saint ; yea , and for a need preferre a lether dublet in honour before thy selfe . Though thou beest great it seemes thou hast forgot it .

4 Obj. Ah , but will a Christian say , I am so addicted to mirth , and pleasure ; I must have my vagary , and tickle my sense sometimes , &c.

1 Answ. Christian , dost thou love thy pleasures more than thy God , that indeed were something ? art thou more pleased with hearing a song , than hearing a sermon ? this sounds high . But love God best , and for ought I know , thy eye ( for thy recreation ) may bee delighted in seeing , and thy eare with hearing too .

2 Answ. Wilt thou baulk an opportunity of communion with Christ , or with his Saints , for a vaine pleasure ? Wilt thou bee a loser in thy heart , to gaine a little pleasure for thine eye , or eare , or any sense ? wilt thou misse a family duty , an opportunity of hearing Gods word privatly or publiquely , thy time of secret duty , a time of communion with the Saints to wait upon thy pleasure ? In such a case I would have thee suspect thy heart , otherwise thou mayest recreate thy selfe with them , and yet have forgotten them .

3 Answ. Suppose thy pleasures have been such , and are such , as are in themselves sinfull , as wantonnesse , drunkennesse , &c. Dost thou love them so , that thou wilt have them whether God will or no ? thou wilt break with God to enjoy thy lust ; this is an ill , and a very ill signe . But possibly thy pleasures are such as God allowes thee ( temperately used ) if such , thou mayest so use them , and yet the King desire thy beauty . I have finished this branch of application , I have but one word more to adde : It shall be of

Exhortation . Let mee now perswade with you Christians ; And ( oh that the Lord would help mee to perswade ) 1. with you , who have not at all yet forgate your fathers house , and so consequently , your beauty is not at all desirable to Christ . 2. With you that have begun to doe well ; I have a word to both sorts ,

1 Br. Is there , alas , is there any poore soule before me this day , whose heart smites him , and tells him , that his soule is not at all yet desirable in the eyes of Jesus Christ ? is there any poore creature so sadly miserable ? possibly the world dotes on you for beauty , wit , parts , behaviour , &c. but in the meane time , doe your soules , tell you in plaine English , that you are despised in Christs eyes . As though God did beseech you by mee , I pray you in Christs stead be reconciled to God . Ah poore soule , wouldst thou be desired of Jesus Christ ? Hearken then O daughter and consider , and incline your care , forget thy owne people , and thy fathers house . I know I am pleading with you for an hard thing , especially for you that have all the world at will : But I beseech you by the love you bear to your precious soules , which shall last for ever ; doe it , ah doe it . I had need now have the Rhethorick of an Angell , yea , if I had ; yet God must perswade Japhet to come and dwell in the tents of Shem. Let mee offer but a few considerations , and venture at a perswading of you , and leave the issue with God .

1. Consider , How will you live when your fathers house failes you ? for the present it is a full house , and you live , as wee say , as well as a carnall heart would wish ; you have pleasures , and honours , and riches , even what you would aske : the colour is in your cheeks , and the marow in your bones . But will this last alwayes ? doth not the fashion of this world passe away ? and will not the fashion of your bodies passe away ? what will you doe in that day of your visitation ? These things may last a while , till God comes to keep a Court in your Conscience , or hee summons you to a particular judgement , or layes you upon your back in a bed of affliction , or comes to his last judgement : But in any of these dayes ( poore creature ) what wilt thou doe ? when thy perfumed body shall come to stinke in the nostrils of men , thy soule shall be more loathed of God ; a future livelihood would be thought of , This will perswade a virgin to marry sometimes . But besides .

2. Christian , Dost thou know the joyes of a married life to Christ ? dost thou put no difference betwixt being a bondslave to hell , and one free in Jesus Christ ; betwixt the enjoying the communion of the children of the Devill , and enjoying the communion of Saints ? no difference betwixt enjoying the commun on of devils , in everlasting torments , and the communion of God , Angells , and Saints , in the highest Heavens , where eye hath not seen , nor hath eare heard , nor can it enter into the heart of man , to conceive what things God hath prepared for them that love him ? now ( if thy conscience bee not seared ) thou hast ever and anon some flashes of hell in thy face . The merriest sinner of you all , I believe is not alwayes free . Is there no difference betwixt that condition , think you , and a peace of conscience , and joy in the Holy Ghost ? Now , you never lie downe in your beds , but ( if you dare look back , and consider how you have spent the day ) your soule is stricken with terrour , and there is a dart almost struck through your liver , and you dare not let your soules feed upon the thoughts , but are glad to shuffle it over , for feare you runne madde ; but if your soules would but forget these vanities , ah , how sweetly would you sleep ; and when you had spent a day in duties of hearing or praying , how sweetly would your soules look back upon it . Now if you were not rock't into a sleep of damnation , you would scarce lie downe to sleep , but you would feare lest you should wake in the morning with hell flames about your eares ; nor walke in the day , but ( like the selfe-accused murtherer ) your eye would be over your shoulder , for feare the devill should be laying hold of you : then you would lie downe in peace , and rise up in peace , and nothing would make you afraid . Is this world nothing Christian ? ah , that the Lord would perswade you of this . Besides ,

3. Consider ( Christian ) there is nothing in your fathers house but you shall find in Christ , by a way of eminency . Must you forsake your sinnes , you shall be filled with the graces of the spirit of God ? Must you forsake a little idle vaine company , you shall have the communion of Saints , yea , a fellowship with the father , and the sonne the Lord Jesus Christ ? 1 Joh. 1. 3. Must you forget your pompe and glory , &c. you shall bee called the sonnes and daughters of God , heires , coheires with Christ ? Rom. 8. Must you forget worldly riches , you shall have the riches of grace ? Must you forget a few vaine pleasures , you shall have a fulnesse of pleasures , at Christs right hand , and that for evermore ? Psal. 16. 11. Must you forget your owne righteousnesse , you shall bee clothed with the righteousnesse of Jesus Christ ? what 's lost by the exchange Christian ?

4. Consider againe , Christ forgot his fathers house for you , and yet it was worth many of yours ; hee forgot the glory , the company , the pleasures of his fathers house for you ; he was content , for you , to be a companion of fishermen , yea , of sinners , yea , of theeves , when he died upon the crosse for you : this he did freely , he made himselfe of no reputation , hee nothinged himselfe for you : Hark what the Apostle sayes , 2 Cor. 8. 9. you know the grace of our Lord Jesus Christ , who though he was rich , yet for your sake hee became poore ; that you through his poverty might be made rich . Let that melting love winne you . Besides ,

5. It is the way to be beautifull : what abundance of paines poor vaine wretches take to be beautifull ? surely this must move . Beauty is a desirable thing , the vaine creatures of the earth would never else set nature with the heeles upward , doe any thing to obtaine it ; wee should never else have so much precious time lost , and so many precious soules undone with paintings , and trimmings , patchings , and perfumings , and a thousand such apish tricks : but beauty is the idoll of the world , to which the very soule shall be offered up in sacrifice , and when all this is done the soule is amisse , and the way to adorne that , is to undresse all againe . Hark , you that desire beauty , here 's the way of beauty which you have not known ; it is to deny your selves in all these things , and whatsoever else is contrary to the law of Christ , or short of him ; yea , and this ,

6. Shall make you desirably beauteous , that Christ shall desire you , and the Saints shall desire you ; this is the way to ravish his heart . But no more by way of motive , God must doe all I know when I have spake my utmost .

I might tell you who it is will desire your beauty ; It is the King of heaven , of glory , and peace ; the King shall desire your beauty . If this , all this will not doe , the Lord open your eyes , and then I am sure it will .

But this is an hard work , and young ones especially had need of a great deale of helpe to it , and truly nature affords none , all is laid up in Christ onely ; In order to the getting of it from Christ , let me advise you ;

First , With a serious eye to look upon your fathers house , and see what there is in it desirable , that should so bewitch one that hath not outlawed his or her reason to it . Look seriously upon your sinnes , will you not see a filthinesse in them ? Look upon your vaine company , bee they what they will , will you not discerne some sordidnesse or basenesse in their actions ? upon your honours and greatnesse , will they not appeare bubbles ? upon your pleasures , will they not appeare shaddowes ? You look upon these things as pictures , side-wayes , or at a distance ; that makes you admire them , and runne after them : come neerer to them , will they not look dawbed with some uncomelinesse or other ? Will not the colours that look'd so sweetly afarre off , stink if you bring them neere your nose ? Let that bee the first piece of advice .

While you enjoy these things , take heed of letting out your heart to them ; rejoyce as if you rejoyced not , and use the world as if you used it not ; be not too much intent upon your fathers house , converse not too much with any thing there ; things of the world have a glutinous quality , the heart will cleave to them , if you let it lie very long amongst them ; and if it once cleaves , there will bee no wayes , but either your heart must be soundly rent upon the severing , or hell-fire must part them .

Thirdly , Ah , Learne to live from your fathers house betimes , take the wise mans counsell , it was after a large survey and discourse of every roome , and the vanity of every roome in our fathers house , Eccl. 12. 1. Remember thy Creator in the dayes of thy youth ; if rottennesse enter into the bones , it will hardly ever out . You that are young , for the Lords sake think of this : Ah , come off your youthfull vanities before they can plead custome with your soules , live from home betimes , believe it , there will bee more weeping else when you come to part .

Lastly , Crie , crie mightily unto God , that he would take off your heart : Believe it , it must be his work , you will be wearied else in the multitude of your owne indeavours ; if the Lord draw off the heart , it will be drawne indeed . Be much in publique prayer , but especially be much in secret prayer . I must conclude .

2. Br. Lastly , you that have been taught of the Lord to forget your fathers house , that so the King might desire your beauty , Let mee plead with you still to forget it more . Selfe-deniall is a long and hard lesson , a Christian must be learning it from his cradle to his grave , and every time hee studies it hee shall find something to be done that is yet behind , and all that he hath done to bee done better : you have learned in part how to doe it , I need not direct you , you need no other directions then

1. To study every day more and more the vanitie of the creature . Read over the book of Ecclesiastes well , it is enough to teach you that lesson .

2. Converse little with your fathers house , have as little to doe with the world , the pleasures , or profits , or riches , or companie , or manners of it as you can , the lesser the better .

3. Be more acquainted with Jesus Christ , get neerer to him , bee more in communion with him , get more tasts of Heaven , Earth will relish the worse for it . I might presse upon you the same motives I urged before , and I should doe it with advantages ; you know what this King is , how much to bee desired , how much to bee odored ; you know what a difference there is betwixt the worlds comelinesse , and the comelinesse which hee putteth upon his Saints . Let mee onely urge one word , or rather name it :

Some read the words , quia concupivit , Because the King hath desired thy beauty , here 's an argument , an engaging argument to a Saint . The Lord hath effectually made it knowne in your soules , that hee desires your beauty more than tenne thousands of others . Hee hath whispered , not onely in your eares , but in your heart , his desire to you . Ah , now Christians be you humble , self-denying ones , because the King hath desired your beauty . Let the love of Christ constraine you , to order your hearts and conversations as becommeth the Gospell of the Lord Jesus Christ : According to the lawes of this King that hath so passionately desired , and so effecaciously declared his desire to your beauty . I must have done : The Lord adde his blessing .

FINIS .